I was hoping to post a picture of Biruk today since his court date was scheduled today. But this afternoon I received the horrible news that we did not make it through court (no idea why - it could be that they didn't see any cases today, mistake in paperwork or maybe I wasn't really scheduled). Who knows....
The rescheduled date is Feb 21st. Yes, it's only 2 1/2 weeks away but in the adoption world (one year into the process) that feels like an eternity right now. We have plenty to keep us busy though and hopefully the time really will pass by quickly.
If all goes well on Feb 21st then Biruk will officially be matched with us and they will order his new birth certificate. That is taking around 3 weeks right now. Once they receive that we will be given a travel date (3-4 weeks after that). So we will be traveling in approximately 8-10 weeks at this point. Maybe longer...
I just wanted to update some of you who are following along. There are a lot of unknowns and surprises with adopting. You just have to handle it all the best you can. It could always be worse and I'm trying to remind myself of that.
Thanks for listening,
Chatter
I'm so sorry to hear this news. It sounds like you have a good outlook on it, and everything you said is true. But I am so disappointed just to read it, I cannot imagine how you must feel. I have no words of wisdom or advice, sorry. I hope that the time passes quickly and you can bring him home as soon as possible.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this news. As Chris's mom, (from peep-eye) I've been following your journey. I know if Christina was within email reach she'd be sending you a cyber hug. So consider yourself hugged!
ReplyDeleteBummer...I know it's annoying when people say stuff like, "Things happen for a reason", but I'm gonna say it anyway. Maybe this is just an exercise in patience that will prepare you for having to chase another kiddo around the house. Yeah, that's it :). Good luck on the 21st - I'm sure that'll be your day.
ReplyDeleteThis human life and its insane challenges; hang in there!
ReplyDeleteDang it Chandra! Sorry to hear that court didn't go through.Seems to be the norm lately.
ReplyDeleteYou're right,about the unknowns and surprises!
Oh that sucks Chand, sorry to hear it. We'll now concentrate on the 21st, Conner will keep you busy until then.
ReplyDeleteKeely
That totally sucks, plain and simple. Wishing you the best of luck in the future. Hang in there!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about this Chandra....
ReplyDeleteI'm sending you lots of positive vibes and hugs to get you through to your next court date...
Lisa
Consider it two more weeks to get ready. You'll forget all about it once you get him home anyway.
ReplyDeleteTalk to you soon.
I'm so sorry honey! I can't imagine your disappointment. He will be in your arms soon.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear the bad news. When he's home you'll think back and wonder how your family grew so quickly. I know I get that feeling most days.
ReplyDeleteI'm behind in blog reading because Lily was sick... but boy can I empathize with you!!!! And the 2 and 1/2 week wait for the next court date is horrible. I am so sorry!!!! It just plain sucks! Hugs!
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry! Your right it does feel like an eternity between referral and travel...I can't even imagine your frustration. We will praying for a surprise earlier court date and quick BC and quick travel!!!!
ReplyDeleteHere's hoping it will happen very very soon!!! Quicker than they say....that's what happened to me.... After failing court the first time, I was told my court date was in two weeks and was called the Wednesday before the week of court (sorry so rambly!!!).....Sending good vibes to the courts!!
ReplyDeleteMel